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aNML RULES

We ask every guest to review the guidelines before attending. Doing so ensures that the energy remains respectful, the atmosphere remains elevated, and every interaction is rooted in consent.
 

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General Conduct

Respect is mandatory.

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Consent is non-negotiable.
“No” means no — always. Do not ask twice. Do not pressure, negotiate, persuade, or attempt to change someone’s mind.

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All guests are expected to be courteous, self-aware, and respectful at all times.


Physical contact of any kind — sexual or otherwise — requires clear, enthusiastic consent.
Ask first. Touch second.

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Wristband Communication System

To support clear communication and reduce awkward or unsafe situations, aNML Parties uses a color wristband system to help guests signal their current comfort level and intentions.

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Wristbands are guides, not invitations. Consent must still be verbal and ongoing.

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  • Green — Open to play

  • Yellow — Proceed slowly; ask and communicate clearly

  • Purple — Open to same sex connections (solo or partnered)

  • White — Social only; not participating in play

  • Red — Pause / Stop / No play

  • Black — Open to Kink Play

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Red may be worn on its own or paired with another color.
When red is present, it always means no play at this time, even if the guest is still socializing.

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Guests may change wristbands at any time during the event.
Ignoring or disregarding someone’s wristband will be treated as a consent violation.

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Play Etiquette

If play is already in motion, do not interrupt.


Only join if you are clearly and directly invited. Unsolicited participation is not tolerated.

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Nudity, sexual activity, and play are permitted only in designated areas specific to each event and venue. Public spaces are intended for socializing and light consensual affection only.

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Disruptive, aggressive, disrespectful, or coercive behavior will result in immediate removal from the event and may lead to permanent exclusion from future aNML Parties.

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Venue-specific guidelines — including dress expectations, nudity allowances, play zones, and wristband protocols — are communicated clearly on the event page and in pre-event materials.

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Dress Code

Our events are curated, adults-only experiences. Attire should feel elevated, expressive, and comfortable for both socializing and play.

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Lingerie, fetish wear, leather, lace, lingerie-inspired outfits, stylish clubwear, and creative self-expression are all welcome.

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You are encouraged to dress in a way that makes you feel confident, sexy, and authentic. Whether you arrive fully styled or plan to dress down later in the evening is entirely up to you.

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Above all: wear what allows you to move freely, feel desirable, and engage comfortably with others.

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Reporting Issues

We can’t address problems if we don’t know about them.

If someone or something makes you uncomfortable, please speak up.

Notify an aNML host or security staff immediately. Reports are handled discreetly and taken seriously.
 

You’re not “ruining” the event—disrespect already did that.

Alcoholic Drinks

Alcohol / Substance Policy

Alcohol may be available on the premises through a hosted or independent bar service and/or for purchase, depending on the event and venue.

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Guests are expected to drink responsibly. Overserving, disruptive behavior, or impaired conduct will not be tolerated.

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Where permitted, personal alcohol must remain with you at all times. aNML Parties is not responsible for lost or stolen personal property, including alcohol.

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No glass containers are permitted anywhere on the property.

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Absolutely no illegal drugs are allowed on the premises.

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Violation of this policy may result in removal without refund.

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Photos & Phones

Personal photos are permitted in non-play areas only with the clear consent of everyone involved.

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No phones, cameras, or recording devices are allowed in play rooms at any time.

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Unapproved photography or video recording will result in immediate removal from the event.

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Our official aNML photo booth may be available in designated non-play areas. Participation is always optional.

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aNML Parties may capture event photos for promotional and website use. If you prefer not to be photographed, simply decline—your choice will always be respected.

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Respect for privacy is non-negotiable.

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Refund Policy

All ticket sales are final

— no refunds, credits, or exchanges.

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  • All ticket purchases are final — no refunds, credits, or exchanges.
     

  • In limited circumstances where lodging or add-on services are offered directly through aNML Parties, adjustments may be considered at our discretion only if the space can be successfully rebooked.
     

  • Processing or service fees may apply.
     

  • Ticket transfers or resales must be approved and facilitated through aNML Parties — no exceptions.
     

  • Force majeure events (“Acts of God”), including weather, government restrictions, or unforeseen circumstances, do not guarantee refunds.

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