aNML Parties
FIRE & ICE Hotel TAKEOVER
Let’s start with the name: aNML stands for A Non-Monogamous Lifestyle
— and yes, that’s intentionally broad. We believe non-monogamy isn’t a one-size-fits-all experience. Whether you identify as a swinger, polyamorous, open, monogamish, or you’re still exploring what ethical non-monogamy means for you, you're welcome here. aNML is a space that embraces the full spectrum of connection, curiosity, and consensual play.
Our mission is to build a vibrant, sex-positive community in Charleston where people in the lifestyle can connect, celebrate, and feel safe being themselves. Whether you're new and curious, seasoned and adventurous, or somewhere in between, we’re creating events that feel exciting, inclusive, and drama-free.
aNML RULES
Your full attention please!
{Security will be on site}
General Conduct
Respect is mandatory!
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"NO" means no—always. Don’t ask twice.
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Be courteous, responsible, and hands-off unless clear consent is given.
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Disruptive or disrespectful behavior will result in removal.
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Because we’ve taken over the entire hotel, nudity is allowed inside. It is not permitted outdoors (including the pool area).
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Play is welcome only in designated playrooms (second & third floors). General affection like kissing and light touch is fine in common areas, but no sex in open spaces.
Dress Code
Our theme is 🔥 Fire & ❄️ Ice.
Think fiery reds, lingerie, sequins, body paint—or icy silvers, metallics, whites, and glowing accessories. Couples could come as a Fire & Ice duo --- be playful & fun.
*Your starting outfit can be your dress-down outfit or maybe you want to match or mix up your dress-down vibe. It's up to you but above all wear what makes you feel confident, sexy, and ready to Play with others.
Reporting Issues
We can't address problems if we don't know about them. If someone or something makes you uncomfortable, please speak up.
You're not "ruining" the event—disrespect already did that.
Alcohol
We provide an open bar during dance and play parties, staffed by our bartender.
Each floor will have two open tap pitchers with alcohol. Mixed drinks available for purchase only on1st floor.
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BYOB is optional but must be kept in your private room.
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No glass containers anywhere in hallways or public spaces.
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ABSOLUTELY NO HARD DRUGS ALLOWED.
Photos & Phones
Cameras and photos of your own are allowed in non-play areas with everyone's consent.
Our official aNML photo booth will be on site, setup in the valet of the hotel (before you enter).
No phones or recording devices are permitted in play rooms. Unapproved photo or video use will result in immediate removal.
Respect everyone’s privacy.
We too may take photos for ourselves (aNML Parties) for general promotion and website usage. Our event photos are for promotion only. You may still opt to not be in our photos.
Politely decline.
Refund Policy
All sales are final
— no refunds, credits, or exchanges.
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In rare cases, room-only refunds may be issued for mechanical issues (processing fees apply).
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Refunds require advance notice and depend on us being able to rebook your room. Processing may take up to 5 business days.
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Room transfers or resales must go through in-house reservations — no exceptions.
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Force majeure events (“Acts of God”) do not guarantee refunds.