1. What is aNML Parties about?

We’re a community for individuals and couples exploring or living a non-monogamous lifestyle. Our events create a safe, sexy, and social space for both newcomers and seasoned veterans to connect, flirt, and explore consensually.

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2. Who can attend?

We welcome respectful adults (21+) — including couples and approved single attendees — who value consent, communication, and mature social interaction.

 

Single Member Policy (Men & Women)

• To maintain a balanced, respectful, and enjoyable atmosphere, aNML Parties limits and vets all single attendees — both men and women. Single men and single women are each capped at approximately 10% of total attendance and are admitted by approval only.
   

• Single members can play an important role in the social and intimate flow of the event. When well-vetted, their presence enhances organic connections and couple-led dynamics without overwhelming the space.
   

• All single attendees are screened for maturity, consent awareness, and social etiquette to ensure couples feel comfortable, respected, and never outnumbered.​

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3. What are your core values?

Consent, communication, and respect are the heartbeat of aNML. Always ask before touching, honor boundaries, and accept “no” without pressure or negotiation.
 

4. What is your policy on joining in play?

If play is already in motion, do not interrupt. Only join if you are clearly and directly invited. Unsolicited interruptions are not tolerated and may result in removal from the event.
 

5. Do I need to be experienced?

Not at all. We welcome every level of curiosity — from your first lifestyle experience to long-time veterans. Come as you are and move at your own pace.
 

6. What kinds of events do you host?

aNML Parties produces curated, adults-only experiences ranging from social mixers and meet-and-greets to large-scale lifestyle events with dedicated play spaces, music, and immersive atmosphere.
 

7. How do tickets and wristbands work?

All guests receive an attendance wristband upon check-in. This wristband confirms entry to the event and must be worn at all times.

In addition, guests may choose to wear a separate colored wristband to communicate their current level of interest in social or intimate interaction. These wristbands are optional and may be changed at any time during the event.

Wristband colors are a communication tool — not an invitation — and must always be respected.
 

8. What do the colored wristbands mean?

Colored wristbands are used to help guests communicate their current comfort level or interests without awkward conversations. Meanings are clearly posted at the event and may include:

• Green — Open to play / connection

• Yellow — Slow, cautious, or conversational only

• Red — Not open to play at this time

• White — Social only / not playing

• Purple — Open to femme/femme connections

These bands help support consent, not replace it. Always ask and never assume.
 

9. What happens if someone violates the rules?

Community safety is taken very seriously. Anyone who violates consent or etiquette policies may be warned, removed, or permanently banned. Trained security is always present to support guests and enforce rules.