1. What is aNML Parties about?

We’re a community for individuals and couples exploring or living a non-monogamous lifestyle. Our events create a safe, sexy, and social space for both newcomers and seasoned veterans to connect, flirt, and explore consensually.

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2. Who can attend?

We welcome respectful adults (21+) — including couples and approved single attendees — who value consent, communication, and mature social interaction.

 

Individual and couple ticket options may be available depending on the event.

All attendees must be registered and approved through the event registration process.

 

Single Member Policy (Men & Women)

• To maintain a balanced, respectful, and enjoyable atmosphere, aNML Parties limits and vets all single attendees — both men and women.
   

• Single men and single women are each capped at approximately 10% of total attendance and are admitted by approval only.
   

• Single members can play an important role in the social and intimate flow of the event. When well-vetted, their presence enhances organic connections and couple-led dynamics without overwhelming the space.
   

• All single attendees are screened for maturity, consent awareness, communication skills, and social etiquette to ensure couples feel comfortable, respected, and never outnumbered.

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3. What are your core values?

Consent, communication, and respect are the heartbeat of aNML. Always ask before touching, honor boundaries, and accept “no” without pressure or negotiation.
 

4. What is your policy on joining in play?

If play is already in motion, do not interrupt. Only join if you are clearly and directly invited. Unsolicited interruptions are not tolerated and may result in removal from the event.
 

5. Do I need to be experienced?

Not at all. We welcome every level of curiosity — from your first lifestyle experience to long-time veterans. Come as you are and move at your own pace.
 

6. What kinds of events do you host?

aNML Parties produces curated, adults-only experiences ranging from social mixers and meet-and-greets to large-scale lifestyle events with dedicated play spaces, music, and immersive atmosphere.

 

7. Are upgrades available?

Yes.

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Wild Current offers a limited number of optional upgrades designed to enhance the guest experience.

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Poolside Service Pass
Provides access to dedicated runners who can assist with food pickup, beverages, ice, towels, and miscellaneous requests while you enjoy the event.

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Intimate Suite Experience
Provides access to our most exclusive environment featuring controlled occupancy, enhanced privacy, and a more intimate atmosphere.

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Upgrade availability is limited and may sell out prior to the event.

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8. How do tickets and wristbands work?

All guests receive an event wristband during check-in. This wristband confirms admission and must be worn throughout the event.

 

Guests may also choose to wear optional colored wristbands to help communicate their current comfort level, interests, or intentions.

 

Colored wristbands are intended to encourage communication—not replace it.

Consent must always be verbal, ongoing, and respected.

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Wristbands may be changed at any time during the event.

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9. What do the colored wristbands mean?

Colored wristbands help guests communicate their current comfort level and interests at a glance.

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🟢 Green — Open to play

🟡 Yellow — Proceed slowly; communicate clearly and ask first

🟣 Purple — Open to same-sex connections (solo or partnered)

⚪ White — Social only; not participating in play

🔴 Red — Not open to play at this time

⚫ Black — Open to kink exploration or kink-focused interaction

 

Wristbands are communication tools, not invitations.

Consent must always be verbal, ongoing, and respected.

Always ask. Never assume.

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10. What happens if someone violates the rules?

Community safety is taken very seriously. Anyone who violates consent or etiquette policies may be warned, removed, or permanently banned. Trained security is always present to support guests and enforce rules.

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11. Can I get a refund if my plans change?

All ticket purchases are final and non-refundable.

In some cases, approved ticket transfers may be permitted through aNML Parties.

Unauthorized ticket sales, transfers, or exchanges are not permitted.

Please refer to the Refund & Transfer Policy for complete details.

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Still have questions? Reach out anytime. Contact Us

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There is no right way to experience the evening.

Simply show up, communicate clearly, respect boundaries, and enjoy the current.