aNML Parties Hotel Take Over
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
Welcome! We enjoy meeting first-time newcomers and those in & out of the LS (Lifestyle).
During the Pool Party you might notice that some couples ease into play quickly—that’s just part of the exciting, sexy energy of the night. But remember, there’s NO rush and NO pressure. Some couples choose to simply watch and soak it all in, while others may feel ready to play. Wherever you land on that spectrum is perfect. Go at your own pace, do what feels right for you, and most of all—enjoy the experience.
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We’re so glad you’re here!
aNML THOUGHTS
SWIM
Mix and mingle. Be yourself and introduce yourself to others you may find an attraction towards.
VIBE
Your vibrational energy will attract the same energy. Remember when talking to leave room for listening.
RESPECT
Without judgement or jealousy, respect yourself, your partner, and others around you.
Play to have fun but NEVER have expectations!
Q & A
1. What is this group about?
We’re a community for individuals and couples exploring or living a non-monogamous lifestyle, including swinging. Our space is inclusive, welcoming all experience levels—from curious newcomers to seasoned veterans.
2. Who can join?
We welcome respectful, open-minded adults (21+) of all gender identities and sexual orientations. Singles and couples are both encouraged to join.
3. What are your core values?
Consent, communication, and respect are at the heart of everything we do. Everyone is expected to honor boundaries, ask before touching, and accept “no” without pressure or negotiation.
4. What is your policy on joining in play?
If play has already started, do not ask to join. Only participate if you are clearly invited. Unsolicited interruptions are not welcome and may result in removal from the group or event.
5. Do I need to be experienced?
Not at all! We aim to create a safe, judgment-free space for people at every stage of their journey. Whether you’re just starting to explore or you’ve been in the lifestyle for years, you’re welcome here.
6. What kinds of events or activities do you offer?
Our events are meant to get people talking and interacting with each.
Meetup - casual night out. Meetup - interactive social game night. Or Summer Pool Parties allow us to be comfortable and not "try" to impress anyone. Show up to have fun but have NO expectations.
7. How do I get started?
If you're vetted by someone within the LS and you come as their guest is always a great way to fast track getting started. Joining LS groups, or Social Media groups whose subject is Swing, Mix, or Play is a great way to start. And our Pool Party Hotel Take Over allows a "speed dating" connection to multiple people in one area that are all like-minded.
8. What happens if someone violates the rules?
We take community safety seriously. Anyone violating our consent or etiquette policies may be warned, removed from an event, or permanently banned from the group.